It has been nearly 2 years now since Stuart and I received engaged and we nonetheless haven’t set a date. That’s partly my fault as I’m decided to not get married till I’m at a weight I’m proud of! I’ve misplaced a bit now although so really feel like issues are transferring in the proper route and wish to begin fascinated by issues, together with my hen night time or hen weekend!
Relating to hen events, they are saying the second time’s a attraction. Having been married earlier than, I can inform you that my first hen social gathering was, nicely, boring – meal and drink however residence sober! This time I would like one thing higher, as I do know the wedding will likely be higher so why shouldn’t the hen night time be too!
Rethinking the Hen Celebration
Hen events should not nearly pre-wedding festivities; they’re about celebrating a brand new chapter with the individuals who matter most. In contrast to my first wedding ceremony, the place the hen do was extra of an afterthought, this time, I would like it to be extra of a spotlight.
For me, an ideal hen weekend means good firm, nice meals, and perhaps a cocktail or two, or ten! A weekend the place the laughs are lots, and the reminiscences are cherished lengthy after the confetti settles. However the place ought to this celebration happen? That’s the million-pound query and I actually cannot determine!
UK Adventures
The UK provides quite a few incredible choices for a hen weekend that balances enjoyable and class. The benefit with a UK hen weekend is it’s typically simpler and cheaper for everybody. Right here’s a peek at some potential locations:
London
The colourful coronary heart of the UK, London has one thing for everybody. Whether or not it’s a bottomless brunch in Covent Backyard or cocktails overlooking the skyline, refined evenings abound. And let’s not overlook the West Finish – catching a present while recovering from a hangover the following day could possibly be the cherry on prime of an aesthetic hen do.
Edinburgh
For individuals who adore a mixture of historical past and nightlife, Edinburgh is a best choice. Wander by way of the cobbled streets earlier than settling in at a unusual bar. A ghost tour might add a bit further thrill to the proceedings, making it a weekend to recollect. I’m fairly tempted by Edinburgh however as I’ve by no means been I’m a bit uncertain the place the finest bars for a very good hen night time could be in relation to accommodations and so on.
Liverpool
Liverpool is thought for its vigorous ambiance and pleasant locals. With loads of bars and stay music venues, it’s excellent for a gaggle seeking to dance the night time away. Plus, visiting The Beatles’ hometown provides a cultural twist to your celebration. I like Liverpool so it’s positively one of many prime contenders I feel. It’s a couple of 3 hour drive from me (together with stopping for a break) so a pleasant distance.
Newcastle
Recognized for its nightlife, Newcastle strikes a pleasant steadiness between enjoyable and class. I went to school in Sunderland so have so many fond reminiscences of nights out in Newcastle. The Quayside provides attractive views and so many fashionable bars and I do know an evening on the market could be sensible. That stated, I haven’t been there for an evening out since round 2003!
European Escapades
I’m additionally contemplating Europe as there are such a lot of fashionable locations for an unforgettable hen weekend that I just like the sound of!
Barcelona
Barcelona’s mix of tradition, delicacies, and nightlife makes it a prime contender. Think about sipping sangria within the solar with the ladies in Barcelona or having fun with tapas at an area eatery earlier than dancing the night time away at a trendy seaside membership.
Dublin
For a heat welcome and a pint of Guinness, Dublin is unparalleled. I don’t like Guinness however I like the sound of Dublin all the identical! Town’s pub scene is known, and a stay music session at a conventional Irish pub could possibly be the right finish to a day of cocktails. I’ve seen some pretty hen events in Dublin so it does look pretty however would I somewhat UK-like climate or the solar?
Majorca
I like holidaying in Majorca so that could be a particular contender and a brief sufficient flight to the solar to imply the social gathering can begin as quickly as we arrive. With gorgeous seashores and nice bars, we might loosen up by day and luxuriate in a vigorous bar scene by night time. I might be eager to search out the place isn’t as fashionable with the youthful crowds although as I don’t wish to stand out as older!
Albufeira
Albufeira, in Portugal’s Algarve area, is attractive and someplace we solely lately went on vacation so I might love to return. It provides gorgeous coastlines and such a beautiful laid-back vibe. Excellent for a mixture of stress-free seaside time and vibrant nightlife, it’s an important spot for a superb hen do.
The Dilemma
Now that I’ve laid out my choices, the dilemma stays—ought to I keep nearer to residence or jet off to sunnier shores? Every vacation spot has its enchantment, and whereas a bottomless brunch in London sounds pleasant, a sun-kissed weekend in Majorca is equally tempting. I’ve additionally heard some good issues about Jap European nations however wouldn’t know the place to begin with Poland, Romania and Croatia for a hen do!
Making It Stylish
Regardless of the place we go, I do know I would like this hen weekend to be free from the clichés. Which means no L plates, thanks very a lot. As a substitute, I’d like a fairly refined affair assume bottomless brunch, pub crawls and in mattress earlier than morning! I’m too outdated to be getting residence when others are getting up for work!
Last Ideas
Planning a hen social gathering the second time round is enjoyable. This time, it’s not simply in regards to the social gathering, it’s about celebrating with intention. It’s about an incredible weekend that displays who I’m and the place I’m in life. Whether or not I select an area spot or a European metropolis, I do know the right weekend is on the market ready to be found. Now I simply have to lose some extra weight so I can really feel comfy planning the marriage too and get a date sorted!
I’d love to listen to from you! For those who’ve been to any of those locations or produce other options, please share your ideas. Your insights could possibly be simply what I want.