Carole Wilbourn, a self-described cat therapist, who was recognized for her talent in decoding the emotional lifetime of cats, as confounding as that will appear to be, died on Dec. 23 at her house in Manhattan. She was 84.
Her dying was confirmed by her sister Gail Mutrux.
Ms. Wilbourn’s sufferers shredded sofas, bathroom paper and romantic companions. They dirty rugs and beds. They galloped over their sleeping people within the wee hours. They hissed at infants, canines and different cats. They chewed electrical wires. They sulked in closets, and went on starvation strikes.
They suffered from childhood trauma, low vanity, anxiousness, despair, jealousy and simply plain rage. And Ms. Wilbourn, who was self-taught — in faculty she had studied (human) psychology and majored in schooling — appeared notably attuned to the inside workings of their furry minds. A minor Manhattan movie star, she was typically known as the kitty Freud, or the mom of cat psychiatry.
Cats hate change, she typically famous. Even a brand new slipcover on the couch can undo them. Cats are egocentric. Not like canines, who attempt to please their grasp, a cat strives to please itself. To mangle a cliché, comfortable cat, comfortable (human) life.
“A cat behaves badly when it’s making an attempt to speak,” she advised The Los Angeles Each day Information in 1990. “It’s sending an SOS. It’s saying, ‘Please assist me.’”
Ms. Wilbourn developed her specialty over a half-century after founding The Cat Observe, billed as Manhattan’s first cats-only hospital, in 1973 with Paul Rowan, a veterinarian. She mentioned she was the primary feline therapist within the nation, a declare that isn’t recognized to have been disputed.
She was the creator of six books, together with “Cats on the Sofa” (first revealed in 1982), which supplied case research to assist cat lovers higher perceive their furry buddies. She handled sufferers as distant as Australia and Turkey (by telephone), and made home calls as distant as Maui.
“Cats have feelings,” she mentioned. “They get comfortable and unhappy and annoyed, and, since I perceive feelings in individuals, I perceive them in cats.”
She estimated that she had handled some 13,000 cats, and claimed a hit fee of 75 to 80 p.c. Take Snoopy, who didn’t wish to be held and performed tough when he was, and ran round in circles if he was over-excited. Sobriety, a 3-year-old tabby, scratched her personal pores and skin uncooked. Minina bit all guests, and needed to be locked away throughout dinner events. Ms. Wilbourn’s analysis? Single cat syndrome. The therapy? One other cat, ideally a kitten; numerous consideration, however to not the kitten; and, in Sobriety’s case, Valium.
She as soon as handled a cat with Reiki power therapeutic after it had by accident been run by way of the dryer.
Ms. Wilbourn’s go-to prescriptions additionally included New Age and classical music, recordings of whale songs and an abundance of treats, like catnip (a pure antidepressant, she identified). She additionally prompt canny habits modifications by the people, like having a brand new romantic companion feed the cat. She typically beneficial, within the days of landlines and answering machines, that people name their pets and go away them cheerful messages. Her providers didn’t come low-cost. Home-visits in Manhattan hovered at $400.
“If I lived wherever in addition to a giant metropolis like New York,” she advised The New York Occasions in 2004, “I’d be on meals stamps.”
Carole Cecile Engel was born on March 19, 1940, within the Flushing part of Queens, one in all 4 youngsters of Harriet (Greenwald) and Gustave Engel, a taxi driver. There have been no cats of their Queens residence, however the household did have a canary named Petey. Carole graduated from Bayside Excessive Faculty and attended Albany State College’s Faculty of Schooling earlier than transferring to New York College, the place she studied psychology and earned a Bachelor of Science diploma in enterprise schooling in 1964.
Her first cat was a part-Siamese named Oliver, whom she adopted by way of an advert in The Village Voice. She was working in its place trainer and a Playboy bunny earlier than opening The Cat Observe with Dr. Rowan, whom she later married.
“She was very attuned to the animals, to their emotional states,” Dr. Rowan mentioned in an interview. “It was very uncommon for the time.” Consequently, their enterprise flourished.
An earlier marriage to David Wilbourn, a photographer, led to divorce, as did her marriage to Dr. Rowan. Along with Ms. Mutrux, her sister, she is survived by Orion 2, a Siamese.
Ms. Wilbourn was a canine lover too, and every so often handled canines, although she by no means had a canine herself. However she had particular views about anti-cat individuals. In her expertise, she mentioned, a few of those that claimed they had been allergic to cats typically simply didn’t like them.
“A cat is a free spirit and won’t be subservient,” she wrote in “The Inside Cat” (1978). “Individuals who derive their gratification from giving instructions that others should obey will be threatened by a cat. It’s exhausting to say your sense of energy over a cat.”